I think I will tell him Friday when he sees me packing, and encourage him to go visit his sister or something with the kids on Saturday.
Do you have someone who will be helping you Friday night? I don't like the idea of you being alone with him once he knows you are leaving.
And congratulations on making this move.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement