I think those are some good ideas. I already bought the Shepharding a childs heart book for myself to read. The books were just suggestions to W. I am going to buy some of the Max Lucado books to do with D11 and D7.
And you are right, it is fruitless to point out to W that the separation is playing some part. W doesn't want to see that or hear it. She just wants to live in denial about it. I think I just get tired of hearing her constantly bring it up and defending herself on it. She knows I see right through it. So maybe I should just tell her to quit bringing it up.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
