When I have my kids with me, I like to limit their sugar intake. I don't see anything wrong with her making that request. You know exactly what she meant. She didn't say it was the worst thing, as bad as divorce, she said "I wish you wouldn't do it with candy..." It is a request. You both (Antlers and K4D) are really convoluting the issue IMO. You really can't co-parent if you go to the "but you are ruining their lives by divorcing..." place.
Just my two cents.
Kinda like when she was moving out, she would only move stuff at night so the neighbors wouldn't see! She didn't mind ripping our family apart...she just didn't want the neighbors to see it!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
