When they are in replay or withdrawal do they act like normal people? or what we see as normal? I mean, I feel like really he is moved on, he is where he really wants to be and maybe he is but is their "acting" for us? Is that why the stay away for weeks at a time and then all of a sudden they want to be dad again..that's what is so strange..he acts like he just saw the kids the day before and it's been 6 weeks...blows the mind..
My H's childhood was very loving..his mom is a bit overbearing and always told her younger son to see how great my H was...he would feel bad when she did this in front of his brother...maybe because he knew he was no better but didn't want to disappoint her? could that be it? this all happened in the past 10 years...and the love child was born 10 yrs ago..
I believe now that our life probably couldn't have kept going the way it was in the rut...the every day grind...it's just unfortunate it had to be this severe...
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
