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Re: Returning from the land of excuses... LolaL #1876818 11/18/09 05:53 PM
Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,945 B BeginningAgain Member
BeginningAgain Member B Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,945	Originally Posted By: LolaL Yes...Arizona. In Winslow... Will you be the one driving a "flatbed Ford"? S4H

Re: Returning from the land of excuses... BeginningAgain #1876826 11/18/09 05:59 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	So funny! I thought of that song immediately too! T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

Re: Returning from the land of excuses... mishka422 #1876832 11/18/09 06:05 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Yes I will...if that is all the rental company has!!! Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Returning from the land of excuses... LolaL #1876850 11/18/09 06:19 PM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	If you want to go two hours out of your way, one way or the other, you can come by Tucson! You know, the place JoJo left!

Re: Returning from the land of excuses... Virtually_Handsome #1876876 11/18/09 06:44 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Could be a cool day trip!!!!! I may just have to do that!! Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Returning from the land of excuses... LolaL #1877544 11/19/09 04:11 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Okay so now all of a sudden stbx is becoming Mr. Chatty. I find it interesting that now that the divorce is inevitable, he wants to chat? So because I want the divorce, he thinks everything now is fine? I just don't get these people. Do they have brains? Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Returning from the land of excuses... LolaL #1877551 11/19/09 04:18 PM
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BeginningAgain Member B Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,945	Originally Posted By: LolaL I just don't get these people. Do they have brains? They have brains - they just aren't very good at using them. That's why the are in the category of "STBX".

Re: Returning from the land of excuses... BeginningAgain #1877586 11/19/09 04:47 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	He could be trying to be friends to make himself feel better about going through with the D. He could be trying to friendly to justify the D - you guys are better friends than you were H & W. He could just finally be feeling enough distance to feel "safe". Regardless, it is up to you to decide how much of that you want. You can set the boundary. What will it be? Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Returning from the land of excuses... MichelleLT #1877606 11/19/09 05:08 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	That's just it. I don't know. I have spent the last several months building myself up to do this divorce. And to be honest, I do want it. Regardless of what happens in the future, I don't want to be married to him, nor to anyone. Something in me has realized that relationship is over, and to continue this marriage would mean I was still living in that. I don't want to be available to him, not to try to draw him back, but just because I don't want to. I am such a different person than the one you first posted to a year and a half ago, Michelle, and I know that no matter what, I deserve better than how he did treat me. On the other hand, I suspect the stupid German will always have a part of my heart, and although I know at some point I will not speak to him anymore, it's kinda nice right now. I am not looking at it as we are reconciling, but at least this will end without the anger and animosity that was brewing. Make sense? Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Returning from the land of excuses... LolaL #1877631 11/19/09 05:27 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	Makes perfect sense Chris. T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

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