It's called Denial Kev. You should know abou it Just like you are in DENIAL about her wanting a DIVORCE. Just ACCEPT REALITY and move on. Dont send her books about praying. That is judgemental. People that are being judge DO NOT feel RESPECTED.
You say you know you should DETACH but you still are asking questions about what she is thinking. Who cares!?! DETACH.
Just like you are in DENIAL about her wanting a DIVORCE. Just ACCEPT REALITY and move on. Dont send her books about praying. That is judgemental. People that are being judge DO NOT feel RESPECTED. 
