Hi bonnyh-

Well, feels good to have someone with a similar sitch. how did you show your H you were opening up? were you together enough to show that?

and yes, I am finding it feels OK and survivable to talk about my feelings. So that is a big change.

Can you point me towards your sitch thread?

Thanks!

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process