Wait, Future, is the purpose of this letter to create a crisis (wake up call) for your wife or to put into writing that you are going to pay for her divorce and reduce her support payment in lieu?
"In response to Steve McQueen's concern that it might not leave any wiggle room once sent, I've softened it ever so slightly:"
Steve's wife is living with her sister. Steve aint soft. gotta funny but saddly true story, in the midst of the craziness and during a long period of SSM, i told my sweet dear wife this is ridiculous i love you but my needs arent being met here. her response was, i dont understand through the course of all my lifetimes this is just miniscule amount of time. you can survive. wth. the only thing i could say is for those of us who only go round once this is bullcrap.
but anyhow, i quess my question is is this your LRT or your final statement?