We have made no specfic arrangements regarding how much access she will have to the house. Since I will have no access to her apartment, it is only reasonable and fair that she have limited access to the house. We will have that discussion and I will set boundaries that I am comfortable with.
Earlier I agreed that she would move out slowly through December It was probably a bad decision, but I will honor it, rather than my usual flip-flopping - a huge 180 for me. I have stated clearly that she will not be sleeping here effective Dec 1.
January 1 (yes...after the vacation) I will want real separation between WAW and I and our discussion regarding boundaries will look after that.
Robx - I am very slowly getting there. I know how much I frustrate you, but at least I am making a little progress and I appreciate that you and the other pros never completely give up on me.
