Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

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So we had a drama last night - his BMF in Cornwall told him recently he had an 'email friendship' with Helen. Then last night we invited him to an event and he said he was going anway.. and he was taking Helen!!

My bf got VERY upset about this. He said he felt let down and incredulous his BMF would date his ex, friends dont date each others ex's. That it would make it very awkward to see BMF.

His depression gets worse by the day, he was literally crying in my arms last night. He said he feels behind a wall, he is going inward on himself and that he feels sad, all the time, and doesnt know why. He said perhaps I should find someone else, seeing as he was all this trouble and 'useless'. That he wanted to be a man for me and able to cope and things like this Helen thing really stress him out and he cant cope.

BMF emailed him today to say they arent a couple. Perhaps their date didnt go well afterall! Thats a relief though. I was upset she might be dating BMF, thats one complication we dont need.

I'm at a loss, I wasnt expecting things to get SO bad again. Of course I worry he will leave again but he said he wouldnt. I think he should go back on AD's.