my W doesn't regret her affair

[Gnosis]

As a woman, the fact that 'feelings' are not mentioned would devastate me. Perhaps, she is the same? We women pick up on that very quickly.

Exactly!

BM the purpose of this letter is to create CRISIS. To clearly communicate the Future "is done" and accelerate fear of loss.

The "devastation" will force her hand to "sh!t or get off the pot". She's been having fun and emasculating Future for about a year with her indecisiveness.

How much more should he take before she sends him to the funny farm?
How much longer must the man sit back and "enjoy" the devastation she has wreaked on his family?

Future is in a good position now. Why? The cracks are starting to show in the affair. Her OM is not being as supportive as he was before. Why? Who knows. One can only ass-u-me. My assumption is that now that the separation is coming the OM has to face the reality of having to live with and support a cheating woman. A woman who has made her husband's life hell. Yes, men can be stupid, but not THAT stupid. Now that the fun is over OM is also getting a peek into reality. I'm pretty should he's asking himself if he could ever trust a woman like her.

Future has made his changes. She has noticed. She is backing off slightly. She is having some second thoughts. That letter, accompanied by legal ACTION will add to her crisis and encourage her to face reality. The iron is hot. Her resolve has weakened.

Should he wait until she recovers her resolve and her barriers come slamming back up?