I said that I would like to listen today and let my W share. I was expecting to be hit with bricks but it was remarkably calm.
W apologized to me for resisting my growth and that she wanted me to push forward with it and not let her negativity affect me and that she had noticed the changes.
She then went on to say that she is sorry for the great sadness she has caused me, and that she knows I will be ok in the end.
She did say that she feels she needs to "go on her path" and this is not easy for her and that she does still care for me. She was in tears during the process.
She said she felt compassion and sadness for me?
I said that I was happy she had seen that the change and growth was not a ploy to win her back and that it was being done for me.
I said I accepted the reality of the situation and how she felt.
It was the first time that I saw any kind of emotion from her regarding the sitch other than anger.
We spoke very little on the drive back. I'm happy that I did not show any negative emotions before or after the session. I had no urge to backslide at all after the session.
After nearly 2 months of this rollercoaster I have no idea how I feel at the moment. I am taking time to digest today, I'm not getting sad or exited.
The good thing for me is that she revealed the ambers that are left of her love for me. I am being very carful not to read to much into this though, because she also made it clear that she was pushing on with "her path"
Last edited by Inaspin; 11/19/0901:13 PM.
M: 30 W: 32 Married: 9 years s: 2.8 Bomb dropped: 7-10-09 same house, bed, no physical contact My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1871805&page=1
