It sounds like you are really doing well. I think sometimes it's easy for us to stay in denial about a problem, but you've realized the problem and are becoming proactive. I do think you should not rush into anything, and seek the guidance of alanon and your lawyer. I think this is such a serious problem, that it is wise to seek counsel and form a plan.
Thank you again, Karen. I'm still quite shocked at the idea that this has been right in front of me for years without me taking action. Everything SEEMED ok, and like it was working. I'm really trying to understand now how this has been effecting me and my kids as well as W. I don't think I've understood how much pain she has, still the family is my priority.
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