Ok, well seeing as its not your thread, lol, I will post here something yuo put in piecing. You said....
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He hasnt said he loves me yet!! I know it may sound childish but it is serious for me.
But then you said here...
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Do I love my H? Al, I think I would bore people with my asnwer. We've been thru this before... Suffice to say, I think that the Quantum of Solace is still there and it will always be there.
..Maria...seriously, why do you want your husband to tell you he loves you (and thats not the first time yuo have posted about it) if you are also saying, you dont really love him as such???
That you just have a small degree of comfort left that will never die? That doesnt make any sense. Why would you want a man to tell you he loves you (which is an extrodinary, special thing)if you wont/cant say it to him, or you dont feel the same way!?? Do you think he may sense that dont love with him anymore?
I think you are an archetypal two fish heads swimming in opposite directions. You sound confused. If you're confused, imagine how he feels. And you've been proceeding with caution for.. 3 years !!!
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Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
