I speak to you out of the position of IF (and that's a BIG friggen if) my XW were to ever want to be in your shoes.
So, I would be testing her every second I could to make sure A, it's sincere, and B she doesn't tuck her tail between her legs and cower off the moment a challenge is in her face.
I will let Ron or any other poster who is in better circumstance than I guide you from here as I again am only speaking of what I would do.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11