I just said a prayer for your baby boy, your family and your M.
I think you need to speak to OW and let her know that you are not comfortable with her actions. Joining your gym and classes seems a bit creepy at the very least. Sitting at the table with your W? Being the liaison on the poject? I don't like to attribute motives to people I don't know but the events are all too pat for my liking. I would limit my contact with her. Is there anyone you can assign to do most of the liaising with her on the project?
