How healthy would that be at this stage do you think? I am thinking the answer to your other thoughts might depend on how much you value yourself and what you truly believe you deserve from life.
Why do you think that remaining friends and staying attached at this stage would be unhealthy,I guess that also depends what your definition is of "attached".
Not for me to say but just a thought as ridiculous as it may seem but do you think that by saying you are going to make a decision but taking your time keeps you safe, like fence sitting. You are not available because you are making a decision and therefore can't actually reach that decision because you are taking your time.
You don't actually need your husband to make you feel like a woman,or sexy etc that can just be a "mind" thing, but I do appreciate the fact that a male can certainly help boost you in that department.
