Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

P17, I can now picture you as Dr. Cox!! He is funny but luckily has become nicer in recent seasons of Scrubs.

As for your W thinking you have a special lady: part of her may feel relieved (to alleviate guilt) but come on, the other part is threatened!! She is human, right? Even when I have ended a relationship with a boyfriend, it hurt my ego to learn he had started dating. Haven't you felt the same? I am not encouraging you to date in order to make her jealous! BUt you are GAL and the side effect is causing her to wonder what you are up to. (which is goooood!)

Just don't expect her to drop her relationship for you so soon. Remember that it takes 6 months (on average) for most affairs to end. If you expect her to end her "relationship" in 1-2 month's time, I think you will be disappointed.Be realistic instead.

What do you mean about picking up singing? Fun karaoke or singing lessons? Can you carry a tune? What are you singing? :-)