Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Hey Donster...thanks for all your support. I hope things are going well for you. Head up and stay strong and awaiting the next get together. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Hey Cat, miss you, too. I will be calling soon. Thank you for the compliment.
Hey Frank, anytime, my friend. Next get together - now that's something to think about.
On paper, everything sucks right now. But, in my head, I am ok.
H is pretty much out of my life. Out of our son's life, too, for the most part, although he does see him every 3 or 4 months. I dont hear a word from him. Have no idea if he is still with ow. On the plus side, I dont have to walk on eggshells, dont have to feel like I'm not good enough, not doing things well enough.
I know that after the holidays, the sh@t is going to hit the fan. H's severance has run out, he cant find a job, I cant find a fulltime job still, we wont have medical and I will owe a truckload. He emailed me he will be filing.
So, I have been having some panic attacks regarding my mess of a financial life. Then I realized, panicking is not gonna change a thing. Still going to have the mess. So, I stopped.
I have been so busy with all sorts of stuff. But all my friends here have been on my mind.
Stay cool...they can't put you in jail for owing money. One step at a time. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Hey B! Just wanted to check in really quickly. We need to catch up! Neither one of us have been around much lately. How is the class? The finances... ugggg... I hear ya. Santa is on a budget this year at my house. Sigh. I'll try to catch u on the alt or something! Have a good one!
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