I'm sorry about the whole job thing. I've been kinda spoiled myself, I haven't worked a "real" job in probably 10 years. My thoughts are, if I can make money from home, or on my own time, why should I get a real job!? I don't ever plan to work 9-5 again!
maybe your mom is too embarrassed to apologize? that would really stink to have been the reason to lose such security for someone. Surely deep down, she does feel bad about what happened. But, even though, we must rely on our own means because we never know what can happen. I'm sorry that you've been put in this position. What are things that you enjoy doing? do you have any special talents? perhaps think on these things to try to find a niche that you can create an income with.
hey, one thing I notice a lot, is the negative comments you assume about exH. Of course it's quite likely that all your assumptions are right, but I really think this does more harm than good. He is your babies dad and the more you do this, it will become habit and then character, and when your girl is older, you may not realize how you put him down and although we don't want her thinking he is a "perfect dad", we also don't want her to feel bad about her dad, or have a bad relationship with him. does that make sense? I know that he is not being the dad he should be, or the person he should be for that matter, but it is best to focus on the good that people do, no matter how little it may be, or how hard it is to find it.
or just don't focus on him at all!
what plans do you have for your exh free weekend?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
