Detaching was very hard for me and alot of other people. We all do it at our own pace.
The turkey day dinner was hard for me too. My son invited friends over the first year my h was gone. It did help. I am not going to lie to you it was very hard. The next year my H was supposed to come but it ended up being me, S and D and we enjoyed it.
Start a new tradition. Go out to eat somewhere instead of making dinner. It will be okay....hang in there, the holidays are hard.
