Wow....that breaks my heart about all the problems. I sure hope your W gets the right doctor b/c I finally found one a few months ago and he has helped me in that area a whole lot. When a woman's hormones are out of whack.....then she is just simply messed up!
Well, you know I'm old fashion and don't think wives should have men friends to socialize with....when it doesn't include her H. Just leads to no good! Sure hope she will stop going down that old road.
As usual, you left me with a smile by telling me about your little girl. I can imagine you teaching her how to swim and how proud you are and how happy she is when she accomplishes a task. Yes, you are a great dad....no doubt about that. Lan, your D will not forget this special bonding between the two of you. This is not in vain. There is something special that D's feel for their dad's. I may have shared this with you before, I can't remember....but I told my son something when he found out he was having a baby girl. A little girl's daddy is the first man in her life that she will ever love. How he treats her and loves her and raises her to be a young lady is so important. You are doing a wonderful job and I pray you will continue. My father has been gone for a long time but I miss him terribly. I remember so many things he told me .......and your D will remember the things you say and do. God bless you, my friend. Stay well and be happy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
