Love this! H is angry and he's under the false impression that I still care".
Thats the way! Don't let your H play the victim - hes' not! Mine did the same.
You are entitled to the money and thats all there is to it. I would just , in the most calmest voice I could muster ( and thats not easy w/ me!!) H, you will have to talk to my L- end of story. Do not let him get to you SF, he may think he can bully you or guilt you or just whine you out of it, but stay strong, this is part your money too, nothing you are asking for that is not yours
Beside that, how are you doing? Any fun plans for the holidays? I do wish you a wonderful Thanksgiving!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
