Yea, that kinda made me want to reach through the phone and smack him!! He DID abandon me/us!! He left!! We used to talk about everything, true best friends so not talking to him about my day or my life is very different.

And I still want to smack him.

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month