(((Bunny))) Stay calm, keep trying to get your plan together, a good plan. DO NOT broach the subject with him. Your safety is far more important than money. Let your L figure that all out.
I'll be sure and say an extra prayer for you tonight.
bim
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
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