@ rocked & Dusk: you have to realize that at times you are not talking to the person you love(d), you are talking to the FOG. That's why you work on yourself, you can't control if it lifts, but part of working on the M is "as if" it will lift.
Ah I have not journaled on my sitch for some time and was thinking about it ... this is part of my thinking recently too, maybe I'll take the plunge today.
btw just noticed ... you are in the pacific northwest?
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
