Sad To Be Back 4 Years After The Bust

[Gardener]

BTM as long as she is on the title you cannot change the locks on her. So do not do that. You can ask for the keys in a polite way. But if she keeps them she keeps them. Thats the law here.

Here,too.

But a good boundary to set in place is that she asks permission to come over and gives the reason why. If you say no. Then she cannot come over.

We did that too. And to give credit where credit is due, it was her idea/boundary and she sticks to it.