yes the update on my sitch is I'm D'd since Jan '09. She has been with OM since at least summer '07. He filed in September, his W told me. I wasnt defending my W, I was defending OMW. OMW tried very hard to keep her marriage. I turned her on to DR, but she had a hard time not allowing him to eat cake day in and day out. She wouldnt stand up to him. Now she has, but only after he filed.
W doesnt come home to me anymore. I live in our original house. She tried to have me tossed out, served me on my birthday, but I won that fight. She now rents expensive huge homes on her dime. She doesnt really participate in the kids activities much unless its on her time. when she doesnt have the kids I assume she's with OM.
I dont mind her parents supporting her. However, they never stood up to her for this nonsense and I dont think they should support this OM. And...they wouldnt support him while she was seeing him while he was married, but apparently since he filed, they seem to be accepting this situation. I think thats crapola.
She may have had complaints that didnt make her happy. My point was she never allowed me to recognize those and make adjustments. Just...'not happy, im outta here'....
