Thanks again dncrm for posting your advice. I'll look into the suppeona/subpeona (I probably wouldn't have noticed the sp!)

One thought kept running through my mind today: "H is angry and he's under the false impression that I still care".

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10