I printed out the 25 Do's and Don'ts for LBSs several months ago. It's on my kitchen counter so I can refer to it occasionally.
D10 saw it last night and asked me about it. I told her that three years ago, when W started having doubts, I did all the wrong things. I kept trying to pull her back and instead it pushed her away and now I'm trying to give her as much space and time as she needs.She seemed to understand.
She also seems wise beyond her years.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
