You need to forgive him for YOU. Nothing else. There are three sides to every story I know but if what you're saying has an ounce of truth he needs help ...
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"