I don't like the idea of poking your H with a stick right now, before you have anyplace to go. In a way, I think that you knowing, and him not knowing that you do, puts you in a good place. If he finds out you know, he is going to hide everything, as fast as he can.
VH gets the Triple-Bingo Award for this spot on advice! Bingo, Bingo. Bingo!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
