Limboland: When the WAS is outspokenly not committed to the R, but at the same time is not leaving either.
There seem to be whole lot of us living in exactly this place, but you are right. Though it get's talked about a fair amount here on the boards, it is never directly addressed in any book that I have read.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.