IRMA, there isn't anything else I can add. 25yrs.Mlc just said it all. You will either take the advice, try something new, and make some changes for the better, or you will keep doing as you have done and 5 years from now we will be having the same conversation, it will not change. 25yrs. has been there, done that, and been successful. I would listen to her if I were you....