Going to be blunt and possibly harsh again:

He's already gone. You've been separated for a year. He doesn't call you, he doesn't ask to see you. You're afraid if you take action you'll push him away. How much further away can he be?

Stop acting from fear. That's the big lesson I learned and I've seen some others mention it here lately. Fear is a big motivator but it only holds you back.

Do what is best for you. If you're tired of living in limbo then make a choice to move out of it.


If you love somebody, set them free.
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