p17, Thanks for the encouragement...but I should only care about 50% actions, right?
Yesterday I only saw him about 90 minutes out of 450 minutes so was NC 80% time. On Monday night, we ate dinner together and spent 45 minutes/180 minutes, so NC was 75%. (Compare this to 40-50% in past visits)
As for your sitch, a) her affair is relatively new still and b)she has noticed your weight loss and dance moves. Just start to be consistent with some kind of strategy that you are choosing, which sounds like GAL + NC, right?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004