The only other changes I have noticed from him so far is more compliments, more joking and "nice" behavior when he is here, and when he texts every morning to check on our baby, he used to just ask "How is S doing? How did he sleep?" but in last couple of weeks he has asked "How are You guys doing? Did you do suchandsuch?"
As I've said a million times, I'm no expert. But these texts to me are a step in the right direction. I would say your approach is working, albeit slowly. I would say to keep the pressure off completely and keep going.
I wish my own sitch was going so well!
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"