As others have said its not over till the divorce papers are signed. Im in the same sitch as you Stu, H thinks grass is greener being single, but he is finding out nearly four months later its not that green, and we have no small children so hes not really being stopped doing anything, hes just doing what he could have done at home but was too lazy to do and its all supposed to be exciting cos he's doing it somewhere else!
Coach I'd appreciate you checking out my sitch if you have time, as you have experience of a non affair separation. TIA
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!