So, I guess I hav'nt given up yet, even though I said I had in a previous post, but w thinks I have accepted it. Is that the right impression to give her? I'm thinking yes cause then she will see everything I am doing is for me and not for her ( which it is ), but at the same time I don't want her to get used to it being over either. I will be seeing her shortly causf she us bringing me some swimming stuff for our son and she said she wanted to see the house.