Puppy, why would I want him to agree that I would date? I dont remember agreeing for him to leave or agreeing to him having an A...
After 18 months of BS, a year of separation and his agreement to proceed with the divorce, I made my choice. Things are different when spouses are still both considering reconciliation, in my case, that wanst the case.
I didnt know at the time he was already 2 years in his A. If I had known, we would be divorced now. He knew that I guess.
He was cake eating. He ate hundreds of cakes and me and OW were both baking more. He was spending Sundays at my home, family lunches etc and spending the week having sex and living the easy life with her. She didnt have the guts to pull the plug. I did. Or better said, I convinced him I could. Maybe she was the lucky one K