I am strongly considering dismissing the divorce.
We have attended some positive marriage counseling and are making some slow progress.
It is hard to be patient with the pace of progress.
I try not to focus on the separation, but it still creeps in.

Kids seem to be doing well, and adjusting to the arrangements, at her place, and then at my place the house we all shared.

Me: 41
W: 41
Married: 17 years
Together: 19 years
16-Sept-2008: "W: I want to move out."
16-Jan-2009: Separated, wife moved out.
31-Mar-2010: W, and kids move back home!
D 14
S 12
D 11
S 7