Need some advice here. I talked to another lawyer over the phone today and he basically said the same thing as the first lawyer, that I should file first. I am very leary about doing that since I am still trying and hoping to reconcile. If I file first and she had no true intentions to file am I cutting my own throat? I'm trying to avoid a divorce not encourage one.

The lawyer told me that if I wait and allow her to do so then I will allow her to have all the control. I think that if I do this then I will be promoting the divorce instead of stopping it. What do you guys think?

Me-47
WAW-42
D-16
S-14
M-22 yrs
T-19 yrs
ILYBNILWY-3 years ago.
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