City Girl - Is there any way you could check out my sitch ("Just want me H back" in newcomers)? You give such excellent advice and I had followed your thread when you were actively posting awhile back. I have some similarities w folks about about these lengthy separations w no positive movement/momentum... when or how to reignite things w possible friendship or just take a hard stance and move on/push D yourself? Not at all what I want but H and I separated for a year and he's made no movement either way. I guess a lot are in this sitch. Many thanks and SORRY for hijack!
