T I'm sorry for your pain. My X moves into the house he has recently bought in two weeks. I've no idea if his new wife is on the mortgage but I guess she will be in name. She must either be on maternity leave already or about to be and i'm told she doesn't intend to go back to work. So given that he had so much blood money from me I think in reality it is probably me and XH who really own that house.

Your friend is right it does get easier to detach through habit. I think the question you need to ask yourself is IF you want to detach. The statment about not being done on the bottom of your signature suggests that maybe you don't.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15