So do they know what they're doing and really not care?
MLC? No, not according to my wife. Not based upon what I saw or heard. How were you at your worst? Did you think straight? I'll even go so far as to say you might have even thought about killing yourself. Hell I did. Does that even make any sense? That's how they think...not logically. Take you at your worst and you have an inkling of how bad it is in their head. But only if it is MLC.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK