I may be next

[TrentC]

Okay so the converstion did come up.

I said you can do whatever you would like.

Her: "I would like you to sleep downstairs".

No I am not sleeping downstairs but you are welcome to is my answer.

She really didn't like that.

Good.

Then she starts going on about

Some custody issues and I get a bit pissed off as I am trying to take my son to soccer.

I tell her again when we move I will sit down with you and discuss this.

Also good.

Then later she starts saying crap like "do you hate me"? and "I feel lonely".

She wants me to make her feel better and tell her I am okay with all of this. I totally refuse to do that.

What exactly did you say in response to these?

This morning I got an email saying you need to move downstairs because I was putting the moves on her last night. Ooppps I was sleeping and don't even remember that.

Then how do you know it happened? Most people don't "put the moves" on other people if they are asleep.

I apoligize for that and tell her she can sleep downstairs.

Good.

I also tell her that the kids and I are in one room talking about our "new house" and all the stuff we are going to do there and she is in another room making totaly different plans. A bit frustrating.

Not good. It's not your place right now to communicate this kind of thing; it's R talk, and it's pursuing.

I also made an appointment with a lawyer for next week.

Good.