New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Thanks Michelle. Glad to know you are always out there to give some great guidance. THANK YOU.

This guy who works with me is in the same boat I'm in. His W also left with their son. He's been apart for 2 years. He decided to file for divorce. He's now waiting for it to be fin al so he can pursue this local female interest he has. I told him I haven't reached that state yet, if I ever reach it...

I told him I am patient, at times stressed, but patient. I'll wait as long as necessary for my W to emerge from her fog of war. It's hard to predict anything because lately my W hasn't communicated much. But I told this guy that even silence is a form of communication, good or bad.

Anyway, I noticed that some guys wanted to regain control of their lives and decide to not wait for the WAW anymore. This guy said that he was going crazy just staying in the constant tunnel. I admit I understand all too well what he means. But I am not at that stage of wanting control and resolution. I guess that's why DBing is the ultimate test of self-control because you must remain patient without being tempted to give up. My 2 cents-word...



JR