I picked up my kids and took them to W who was going to meet me at her work to take the kids to C with her. During this exchange W tells me she is busy and her contract ends in 5 weeks. Also asks if I can watch the kids 3 days next week because she will be so busy at work. My dad will be in town next week and will probably love to spend time with the girls. So ok. Then I ask her if she is still coming over for thanksgiving dinner as the girls had really pushed for it and she had agreed she would. She now tells me she isn't sure. Ok, no biggie.
After C I meet her again to get the girls since this is my week with them. W discusses some of the appointment regarding D11 and her together. Ok.
Then, Then, Then, W asks me to pray for her best friends M. As far as my W knew last night, her best friend of 25 years and H had split. He was down in Houston and her best friend is here in Dallas with the baby. Keep in mind this is the best friend and H that covered up the A my W was having, bashed me to my W, sabotaged me at certain points to my W, and pushed my W to D me. Now my W who has her own OM has the gall to ask me to pray for her best friends M??? On top of that is the irony of pray for their M, but don't dare pray for ours.
I said ok and turned around and left. Talk about testing my forgiveness. If that whole situation isn't a test, I don't know what is.
I have forgiven all of them and I did pray that God would help their M last night and this morning.
W tells me later on this morning that their M is not in jeaopardy but that the H has to take care of serious C for himself in Houston.
Ok. Glad to know their M is ok.
Kevin
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Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
