On the bright side, at least you got some. lol. It makes the rest of us envious.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
The magic button is to acknowledge the fact that you are probably getting divorced. You need to prepare yourself for this outcome. You also need to be prepared for a reconciliation. That's why it's called 'lovingly' detach. Think thru where, what, how, when and why your life will be if divorced.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Will try to, Coach just can't face the fact that we might end up divorced.
Fear cripples us. Love yourself enougth to do the right thing. Google the Stockdale Paradox, it helped me thru this concept.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
The magic button is to acknowledge the fact that you are probably getting divorced. Done. You need to prepare yourself for this outcome. Done. You also need to be prepared for a reconciliation. What?! Explain seeming contradiction, of finality of end-game, please. That's why it's called 'lovingly' detach. Think thru where, what, how, when and why your life will be if divorced. Also done.
Thanks.
End Hijack.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Will google that Coach. Thanks again. Where I get confused is this is suppose to be Dbusting, aren't we trying to stop divorce? Why look at the negative instead of the positive?
With the help of God we all can make it. Didn't you feel that way Coach?
H's birthday is coming this Sunday. Do I do anything for his birthday? Get him a card or something? Already have something to give to him from the kids.
