Move over... I 'm moving back......

[BobbiJo]

I hope he keeps on being more than fair. And that you take this opportunity to go back to school and prepare for a new career.

Do you want to move to FL or did he just offer up that he was wouldn't fight you if you wanted to move?

[Silent Chrleader]

I know it's totally selfish of me to say this, but.......I DON'T WANT YOU TO MOVE TO FLORIDA!!!!!!!

[smith18]

I could not imagine wanting to move away from the beautiful Pacific NW. No Hurricanes here! Just beautiful liquid sunshine.

[sandycay]

Tropical Paradise... South East Florida... snorkeling year round, sunshine year round, bestest friends ever, it's a community that we lived in the kids went to school and we still have lots of contact with... family is there too... including my SIL whose H left her 4 years ago and is still with OW and they are still not D. That's my STBXH brother... and just so you know STBXH parents have been married for almost 50 years!

[sandycay]

Headed to L office at 2:30 to sign the final draft... now onto the rest of MY life.

On the only positive note... I weighed myself this morning... I have only lost 5 pounds since he's been gone this time... 7 days ... I must control that problem this time as it was a big issue last time. Oh appetite where are you, plus my runs are suffering!

[BobbiJo]

I am thinking of you, I remember signing my petition...

Hugs to ya...

[sandycay]

I know it's totally selfish of me to say this, but.......I DON'T WANT YOU TO MOVE TO FLORIDA!!!!!!!

I know, and nothing is in stone yet.... but I love it there!

Sunshine on my shoulders... make me happy!

[BeginningAgain]

Tropical Paradise... South East Florida...

Well from a fellow Floridian (even though it has been years since I've actually lived there) I couldn't agree more.

Hope the appointment goes well and is not too stressful. Milestones like these sometimes allow a flood of emotions to sneak up on you.

S4H

[smith18]

I have only lost 5 pounds since he's been gone this time... 7 days ... I must control that problem this time as it was a big issue last time. Oh appetite where are you, plus my runs are suffering!

The lose of appetite can be cured with a good amount of Dungeness Crab dipped in butter.

Do you go crabbing? I used to do quite a bit of crabbing at the mouth of the Columbia river. I think it is stange that the size limit in Washington is 6 1/4 inches, whereas, right next door here in Oregon it is 5 3/4.

The Ocean opens for commercial crabbing on Dec 1, so look for prices to go down considerably soon.

SE Florida? Is that the Keys? Have you ever considered Hawaii?

[sandycay]

I am thinking of you, I remember signing my petition...

Hugs to ya...

Well it was anti climatic which was good... I think I did my cry day yesterday. I did email H this am to let him know and he read the email because I got a return receipt back but he never answered. I said

"Are you sure you want this" Nothing, can't even man up enough to say it.

Also, I ask him the other day the same question and he said and I quote "Isn't it what you want?" Huh... when the hell did I ever say that?

My L said "passive aggressive"... I said "batchit crazy" LOL

Whatever, I will never ask again.

Plus, he sent 3 text to the kids this evening and that was it.

I am sooooo glad he's "not gonna stiff arm" the kids this time.. uggh